I agree with you both. Instead of pen pals I have online friends, and I consider the emails I write to them to be good writing practice. Work emails, journaling, and blogging are all good writing practice as well. Whatever I write that takes some thought and effort, I consider real writing. As long as we keep writing - including those "minor" writing examples mentioned above - we will activate, improve, and sharpen our writing skills.
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